Crossroad

The relationship between me and my parents has not gotten more difficult than this. We all struggle in this dillemma with them getting old and me getting into the soceity. they are keen on providing with advice, indeed persistenly, on decisions i make in life and i do not feel i should be confined to their mindset. however, both of us cannot yet get over the inertia of exposing each other's reluctance to see ourselves grow, and age. a good relationship requires lies. people can survive even with the conflict of thoughts and interest not because people know how to compromise, but to hide. differences between personalities, or needs, clashes results in discontent in the course of life. my dad and mom are 60. i'm 25. my dad is now in his room while my mom talking with her sister and i'm speaking to blogger.com. we just had a discussion/debate about why i should not have taken part a gym membership while the end of the conversation is not solutions. i still want to expose as much of myself to them and their goal is to avoid me making any mistakes. but the differences in ideals keep bringing us moments that make us regret to speak our own thoughts. we are in this crossroad and who would take the first step to move forward?